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They are not as keen to show their emotional side to anyone, including their partners and prefer to solve relationship problems with objective logic and reason.This strong nature of the INTJ works against them in relationships; their partners often want INTJs to show their emotional side and likewise deal with the partner’s emotions.It might also lead to the beginnings of INTJ social anxiety.Once the INTJ girl has started to realize that she functions differently than other children, the reason why fitting in is so difficult becomes more clear.INTJs feel most loved when they are given the time and space alone to meditate, explore and develop their complex thoughts and ideas.Their partners can show that love too by listening and showing appreciation of the innovative solutions they bring to the household and reminding the INTJs that they’re competent and capable.Despite a complete lack of interest in empathy or “girly” activities, it is at times necessary for the INTJ girl-child to pretend to be “normal” in order to please her parental authority figures.
This situation can be exacerbated by the presence of a sibling, particularly a female sibling who meets the “normal” criteria of being feminine and empathetic.Only ~0.8% of the human population are INTJ females, so they are also the rarest personality type.You’re unlikely to find an INTJ female, especially if they don’t want to be found, due to the INTJ preference for staying in quiet places where they can enjoy privacy and time alone. The female INTJ’s childhood might appear harsh and difficult.On the work front, INTJs are intelligent and capable.Hence, they always rise to leadership positions in the workplace; they usually make a good salary for the family and therefore the family seldom has to worry about finances.
This will result in either an adaptation for better “fitting in,” or (more likely) in isolation from other children.